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Glossary

Lending (between friends)

Money lent or owed between friends and family — outside the formal banking system.

Definition

Lending in a personal-finance context refers to money transferred between friends or family members outside the formal banking system — covering dinner, a flatmate paying the landlord, or a sibling borrowing for a deposit. Unlike bank loans, informal lending has no contract, no rate, and no formal reminder system, which is precisely why a ledger is useful.

Key points

  • Most informal lending is forgotten, not refused — a tracker prevents the awkward conversation.
  • Bills split with friends are mathematically lending until everyone settles.
  • Tracking lending by person (not just by transaction) makes settlement obvious.
  • A privacy-first tracker is preferable to group chats — the record is yours, not exposed to a vendor.

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